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I Am In A Polyamorous Relationship With My Boyfriend And His Girlfriend

I Am In A Polyamorous Relationship With My Boyfriend And His Girlfriend

For the previous couple of years, i’ve been the third person in a polycule.

towards the uninitiated, which makes me seem like some form of small superhero, and supplied the mask you’re imagining accentuates my cheekbones, that’s just fine beside me.

A polycule is merely a sweet title for a community of people that are linked through their intimate lovers in a relationship that is polyamorous. Inside our situation, my boyfriend has a girlfriend. She actually is perhaps not my gf, but we do get on really well.

Once I began dating my boyfriend, I happened to be from the rebound. He was met by me online, where he sent me personally a note that merely read, “Hi, hope you’re doing well. We see that you’re a playwright. What type of plays do you realy compose?”

Their profile had been direct. He had been in a polyamorous relationship with their live-in gf of eight years. That has been one thing Becca the Severe Dater could have considered a dealbreaker. But my heart had simply been broken by another dude, and Becca regarding the Rebound thought, we won’t be together for enough time for almost any of that to even matter.“Eff it,” This blue-eyed, open, polyamorous guy with who there is no feasible future appeared like simply the tonic to soothe my weary heart.

The laugh had been on me: Rob and I also connected in a genuine means, and then we made a decision to provide the relationship an attempt. We learned actually fast that to Rob ― also to any person that is polyamorous their salt ― openness and interaction are fundamental. Compared to that final end, it had been vital that you Rob that we meet their other gf pretty quickly. After about a week of dating, he invited us both away to supper where we surely got to understand one another. (more…)